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Resolved Question: My boyfriends bday is coming up.. which is costume is cuter?

My boyfriend loves french maids and i decided for his bday i'd dress up as one for fun ;) Which costume do you think is cuted: http://cgi.ebay.com/Sexy-Lingerie-Blk-French-Maid-Costume-Dress-w-Necklace-/270609659137?cmd=ViewItem&pt=US_CSA_WC_Intimates&hash=item3f0197b501 or http://cgi.ebay.com/Sexy-Blk-Lolita-French-Maid-Costume-Dress-6PCS-/320561067047?cmd=ViewItem&pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&hash=item4aa2edb427 Personally I'm thinking the second one because the first one's 3 stripes makes me think of a referee a little and in the second picture it shows me all angles of the costume where the first picture doesn't show me the back. Plus the second comes with all of the accessories :) Let me know your opinion! Thanks!

Voting Question: Trying to throw a lingerie shower at a restaurant and need help!?

I am throwing my friend a lingerie shower at a restaurant and we will be in a private room. How can I make the space more intimate and make it look like a shower? Also, we are only inviting 15 people and I just went to another one in a restaurant and had to pay for my own food (which was totally fine with me) is this ok to ask of so many people and how would I make it clear on the invitations that it would be each "going Dutch" Any other ideas would be appreciated! Thanks!

Voting Question: Can a marriage survive emotional infidelity?

Am I stupid to trust my wife again? I have been married with my wife for 17 years. About 2 1/2 years ago my my wife's phone received an sms. we both have the same phone so I checked it accidentaly. The message said "I miss you" I was shooked my world fell apart. even though she had not been able show me any efection at all for 5 years before I never expected this. I became worse when she told me that she had met a guy on the net who lives on the other side of the country and they had been flirting on the net recently. she cried and promised me that it was over she would never talk to him again etc. etc Then everything started to escalate, a couple of months later I found an old phone bill from 3 years before and I noticed that she had been texting and calling the same number often more than 20 or 30 times a day. I asked her about it at the time and she told me this was a female friend at work, I rand the number and a man answered I confronted her and she but to me that this was the same guy that texted her and infact she had been communicating with him for the previous 4 years!! Then she cried and promised this was all in the past. The a few months later I by accident when I was repairing here computer I found I a recent picture of this person. I confronted her, she cried promised it was all over. This was 18 months ago. Then 6 months ago I opened her bank statement and fond this guy sent her $100 she the told me that she let him money!! and this was a repayment, (so if $100 is a repayment I have no idea how much she lent him, or for what!) Now a month ago setup a fake facebook profile in my wifes name and sent it to y family, on the profile were naked erotic pictures of my wife. My wife is a very reserved person I could never imagine this from her. She then confessed that there were many many more photos out there much worse than this, she had been exchanging nude pictures with him for years, plus she admitted that last year twice she tried to meet him once she travelled across the country and the other time he came here. Both times I remember her buy new expensive lingerie. She had to go to his town for work, I when she came back she had new lingere, now she admits that she about the lingere here and took it with her. She also admits that she "was" in love with him. But she promises me she has never met him in person and never had sex with him. on the surface it sounds like I am an idiot for staying with her. ok so here is the problem I love my wife, in the past 2.5 years since I found he text we have had a great relationship. She has been very intimate with me I feel a bond with her. There is a chance that there are no more surprises and the relationship with this guy is actually over and we can grow old together. I can also see thing from her point of view, I know that things can escalate until they are out of control and I can understand her not telling me and risking our relationship. There is a chance that she has truly finished everything with this guy and we can grow old together in each others arms. there is a chance that she has never had sex with or met this guy in person. Why throw the baby out with the bath water? Right now I feel so close to her, so bonded with her. but at the same time I feel I have a responsibility to protect myself, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice (or five times) shame on me. I am not a jealous or suspicious husband, and I could even handle my wife have physical intimate contact with another guy, I cant handle the lies and betrayal. My wife has always been a quiet reserved person, she never had a lot of boyfriends growing up. we have been having a lot of sex lately, a couple of times a day. I am worried that this is deadening my instincts and I cannot make clear decisions. What should I do? I know this question is long and confusing here is a summary of the time line, Married 17 years ago She started the relationship with other guy 5 or six years ago originally confessed 2.5 years ago She say she broke away from him 6 months ago. Yes as she said to me in the begining of her relationship with this guy she was going through a pretty tough time and this person came along. So I can see why she entered into this and also she is my wife not my belonging. Se has a free will and the right to pursue love where she feels fit. I feel very close to her right now and the last 2 years we have had what felt like an amazing relationship. But on the other hand what type of relationship was it really when she was s in love with someone else she was will to risk it all?

Resolved Question: 5 YEARS HELP!!! what should i get him?

ITS OUR 5 YR ANNIVERSARY IN A MONTH AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!! Normally presents are super easy for me because Im a really creative person and think up the most thoughtful/creative ideas but over the past 5 years I've done everything! Yes EVERYTHING! Ive done creative: Ginormous cards/ posters /cakes /etc. Ive done Jewelry: watches, necklaces, rings, I engraved our 4 yr anniversary ring already to. Ive done Intimate: lingerie, sex shop items, sexy photos, naughty ideas Im out of ideas !!! oh and we will be on an epic camping trip to so it cant be perishable or big! IDEAS???????

Voting Question: What is the sexiest thing a woman can do when meeting a man?

I'm meeting a guy who I've been speaking to next week. We've already met a few times and have become intimate and expressed out like for one another, but I want to do something to surprise him when I meet him next. How can I do this? Are there any clothes men find particularly attractive? What kind of make-up is preferred? And underwear...what is the sexiest lingerie a woman can wear to entrace?

Voting Question: spicing up love life...question please?

so me and my boyfriend have been in a serious relationship for about a year and a half. we are sexually intimate and are trying to spice things up a bit and not stick to the same old same old. I thought it would be fun to go out and buy a couple sexy outfits to try nothing crazy just something feminine and sexy...i usually get all of my lingerie from victoria secret but they dont have everything and i wanted more variety and a little more edge...we were planning on going to a sex boutique but i have never been to one before and am feeling a bit embarassed. Im not really shy when it comes to sexuality but i dont know what to expect when going into a store like this...will they help me out is it awkward...also should i bring my boyfriend with me to help pick out things he likes or should i surprise him...whats the best way to handle this type of situation or what should i expect...or what can i do if anyone has any tips for spicing the night up a little..thank you :)

Voting Question: Very disappointed...How do I get my boyfriend to try to experience different bedroom behaviors?

My boyfriend and I used to be quite the pair but we recently moved in together and it's like the thrill is gone. It's like he only wants to be intimate one way and that is the only way. BORING!! I am the type of person who likes to try different things...like lingerie, postions, talking dirty and etc. How do I get my boyfriend to enjoy those types of things? He thinks that accessories are a waste of time and money. Help me please!!

Resolved Question: I wore this and got caught?

http://cgi.ebay.com/LINGERIE-LONG-SLEEVE-LACE-UP-BACK-CHEMISE-FUSHIA-LARGE-/160446050746?cmd=ViewItem&pt=US_CSA_WC_Intimates&hash=item255b5471ba Its the same as my mums I wore it just to see now she caught me and next day when i open my drawers its in there I came down and asked her why it was there (because i wasnt exactly sure it was her who seen me) She said I seen you wearing it (putting on a nice voice) and said well I dont mind if your a boy but now you keep it and she said she i going to make sure its there and that i will were it atleast twice infront of my brothers (so as you can see she said she doesnt mind but it seems like she does) I only put it on for fun im not crossdresser ( well atleast i think so ) I now she has every right to punish me and if i was her i now this is the way i would deserve it but please help me guys what do i do

Resolved Question: Men in their late thirties, desire for sex?

My husband and I have been married for 11 years. He is 39 years old and I am 30. We are both healthy. My husband has never been a sexual person and it is getting worse and worse. We are intimate about once every 3 months or so, although 7 months or longer is not unheard of. I've tried thinking of the reasons why this could be happening, but there are none. I look about the same as when he met me (no excessive weight gain, etc.), we have a good relationship otherwise (no arguing or nagging) and I have tried to entice him by buying lingerie and toys. Nothing works! I've asked him if anything was wrong and he says there is absolutely nothing wrong and that he loves me to bits, but he just doesn't feel like having sex. When we do have sex, everything down there works perfectly fine. I don't think he is having an affair as nothing seems suspicious and I'm quite sure that he is not gay. I don't even think he masturbates. So what is going on? Is it normal for a man in his late thirties to have such a low sex drive? I'd really appreciate hearing from men in this age bracket or other women with husbands around the same age. I'd love your opinions and advice! Thanks!

Resolved Question: How can I make my husband see that we are wasting our lives away?

We have been married for 11 years and I love him to bits seriously. We have 2 daughters together and he is a great father and a great husband. Only one problem: sex. He isn't interested in it at all, never has been since I met him. He is definitely not cheating and he is definitely not gay. We are lucky if we are intimate every 3 months, though once it was 7 months or even longer. I've asked him if there was anything wrong and he says he loves me completely, but he just doesn't feel like having sex. I've asked him to go to the doctor and he says that he won't, because nothing is wrong. I've bought lingerie and toys to try to entice him and they collect dust. When we are intimate, it is always me that approaches him. I have to start doing something (like masturbating) in the bed next to him and if he feels like it, then he will join in. But there has been plenty of times when he rejected me and acted like he was sleeping when I knew that he was awake. I don't get it. I don't even think he masturbates or anything. He seems perfectly happy only being intimate a few times a year. I feel like the more time that passes by, the older we get, the less time we have to truly enjoy ourselves. Sexlessness can wait until we are old and gray and can't move anymore. It shouldn't be now when we are still agile and healthy. I've tried explaining all of this to him numerous times over the years. I've tried explaining to him that sex isn't about just having sex. It is a way to feel close to him and be able to love him and get the same in return. But he either gets angry or says he'll work on it and nothing changes. The strange thing is now he wants us to have another baby together. I'd love to have more children, but I keep putting it off because I'm scared. I don't want to have another baby unless things seem right between us. And in the moment, it doesn't feel good. Divorce is NOT an option. I couldn't live without him, I really love him. But what can I do to make things better between us? He won't go to the doctor, he won't go to counseling, I can hardly get him to talk to me about this problem. Does anyone have any advice or ideas? Thanks!